Updated: Apr 13, 2022
I always thought we should experience love... but to experience love we have to want love.
To want love means that we do not want control, we do not want certainty. Love cannot co-exist with control. It cannot co-exist with certainty. Love is the opposite of control. Love is the opposite of certainty. Love is the opposite of planning. Love is the opposite of living to live old.
Love is in a physics vacuum. Love has no plan. Love has no higher purpose. Love is sliding our fingers across their forehead with their head in our lap our last hours alive, and immersing our hearts into their being, their flaws, their life without a linear lens of accumulation, of progress, of goals... and instead without expectation, without ambition, without being to be more, but just to be as one is with nothing.